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What your girlfriend actually wants you to do
She has told you she doesn't need anything. She was being polite. Here is the real list, in order.
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The Advice Column
Written to him. Read by her.
The conversation women have with each other and not with their boyfriends — what she actually wants, what to buy her, what to wear, and how the year before a proposal is supposed to go. Cheeky, specific, and shoppable throughout.
What She Actually Wants
Written to him, read by her. The things women say to each other and not to their boyfriends.
What your girlfriend actually wants you to do
She has told you she doesn't need anything. She was being polite. Here is the real list, in order.
Weekly flowers, and other rituals worth more than they cost
Fifty-two small things beat one enormous thing. The arithmetic is not close.
The Boyfriend Report Card
Eight categories. Mark yourself honestly. The remedial reading is linked at the bottom of each one.
The Gifting Desk
What to buy, when, and why the expensive one is not always the right one.
Dressing Him
What she would change about his wardrobe, ranked by how much it would help.
Getting Serious
Boyfriend to fiancé, and everything that has to happen in between.
